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visitzkidz
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 Posted: Thu May 21, 2009 4:59 pm Post subject: Changed My Mind On Hover Parenting |
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In light of the news reports of increasing abductions, harm and deaths, I now encourage parents to hold, hug and watch their children ESPECIALLY while they're under 18. From now on, our kids don't go our after dark, walk around with strangers (ADD children are especially vulnerable because their judgment is impaired)
While I will admit that some of the things CAS wants us to do are sensible and logical givens, now I just hope and pray we can set up buddy systems and get to know our neighbours VERY well. Fences should start going down.
Don't put up with any more "secret" families that don't talk. Make it your business to watch out for each other. Especially their children, too. I know I've stopped kids from getting runover by cars or hanging out with bad guys, and I'm just my own children's mother.
I can't say much more, and the stories I've heard don't involve me, but dammit, I cried so hard yesterday over another family's loss.
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lulu
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| Posted: Fri May 22, 2009 5:36 am Post subject: |
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| To bad.that everyone has to wait for a tragedy to happen before we make changes that we should have always made.I came to this conclusion years ago,WHY,because we can all see what life is about regarding these kind of people and situations.I have always been accused of being to over protective,to parenoid,to strict,because I watch my kids all the time. By who? By parents.Well!! I say tough,I want my kids to come home to me everyday. So I will always be over protective, parenoid.and strict and watchful parent to ensure their safety. |
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lulu
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| Posted: Wed May 27, 2009 5:51 am Post subject: |
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| As a parent trying to PROTECT my kids,what are my rights concerning the children being spoken to alone when the worker comes for their visit at the house?The kids dont want to be alone anymore when spoken to,They say it is their job.welcome any coments |
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sadmummy
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| Posted: Wed May 27, 2009 12:49 pm Post subject: videotaping? an electronic witness |
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| lulu wrote: | | As a parent trying to PROTECT my kids,what are my rights concerning the children being spoken to alone when the worker comes for their visit at the house?The kids dont want to be alone anymore when spoken to,They say it is their job.welcome any coments |
I guess the newest trend going around is getting the workers to videotape the interviews. I also heard (and it's I beleive somewhere on this site) that accourding to canadian law, that it is not illegal to secretly record (can be audio as well) a conversation between parties AS LONG as the person recording IS PARTICIPATING IN the conversation. So any worker could secretly record if they wanted. I would ask your lawyer if you are allowed with your child's consent to rig them up with a recording device. I really don't know. I think if a child is old enough to want to do it themself and be the one pressing the button, hten maybe it's okay but the little kids, I dont' think so. I would check. |
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fixchildrensaid
Joined: 18 Apr 2007
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| Posted: Mon Jun 01, 2009 9:04 pm Post subject: |
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| lulu wrote: | | As a parent trying to PROTECT my kids,what are my rights concerning the children being spoken to alone when the worker comes for their visit at the house?The kids dont want to be alone anymore when spoken to,They say it is their job.welcome any coments |
Your question is puzzling, to put it bluntly.
You claim that the kids don't want to be spoken to alone, yet you are asking the question in regards to what YOUR rights are?
It would seem logical that - if you were concerned about protecting your children - you would worry about THEIR rights, not your own rights.
Also, in what context do the children say that it is their job? |
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lulu
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| Posted: Tue Jun 02, 2009 9:11 am Post subject: |
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| seems like you misread the words,their rights are the first thing I am protecting,secondly the workers say it is their job to question the kids,but do I as a parent have the right to stop them questioning the kids without and adult present, |
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fixchildrensaid
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| Posted: Sat Jun 06, 2009 1:20 pm Post subject: |
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| lulu wrote: | | seems like you misread the words,their rights are the first thing I am protecting,secondly the workers say it is their job to question the kids,but do I as a parent have the right to stop them questioning the kids without and adult present, |
No, you do not have the right to stop the children from being questioned without yourself being present. Furthermore, you should stop telling your children to lie to the workers when you are in their presence.
It is shameful that you would cause so much harm to your children just in order to seek some sort of revenge (wherever it comes from) against your ex-husband. |
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lulu
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| Posted: Sun Jun 07, 2009 7:15 am Post subject: |
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| you have no clue what you are talking about,what ex husband>???what lies. |
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fixchildrensaid
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| Posted: Sun Jun 14, 2009 6:59 pm Post subject: |
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| lulu wrote: | | you have no clue what you are talking about,what ex husband>???what lies. |
Oh, give me a break... like it wasn't obvious from the get-go who you were. THIS ex-husband.
I pray that Justice Sxxxxx sees through your extreme manipulation and takes the appropriate action in order to protect our children from your family's abusive actions.
The worst part is that I don't think that you are even ABLE to change. |
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lulu
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| Posted: Mon Jun 15, 2009 5:49 am Post subject: |
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| I would like to give you a break alright,this is NOT Jxxxxx as you think,But I am a friend of hers for sure, |
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fixchildrensaid
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| Posted: Thu Jun 25, 2009 5:54 pm Post subject: |
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| lulu wrote: | | I would like to give you a break alright,this is NOT Jxxxxx as you think,But I am a friend of hers for sure, |
You must be blueeyedjenn, then, eh? LOL |
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